But, the fact of the matter is, I am in a satisfying relationship. And I don't say that to brag, just as a matter of truth. I try not to take it for granted, because I know all too well that things can change on a dime. So...just like I strive to be as loving and gentle to my spouse, I refuse to deny it for the sake of others who aren't in my position. I don't want to flaunt it in their face, but...I cannot just pretend that my husband and I are just friends either.
Oh dear, I don't know if this makes sense; or sounds much more insensitive than what I actually am.
Truth be known, my husband and I have not always had the best marriage. We've had our ups and downs, our times when one of the other of us felt like, "And, just why am I staying with him/her?" Believe me, we have. But we have just pushed on through those feelings...it was hard for me, really hard for me at one point to do so.
I am now some years past that, and I can say that I am so glad I stayed around, that I stuck it out. So in celebration of Valentine's Day, last night my husband and I made this bouquet of "roses" for my friends.
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